How Your Mood Affects Others
Have you ever thought about how your mood affects others? Or how someone’s mood affects us?
Most of us have experienced someone being in a bad mood and if we stay around this person, we too can start to be in a not so good mood.
Of course the same goes for someone who is in a good mood. Those are the people we like to be around , as they can put you in a great mood too.
Have you ever thought about why this is? how is it that your mood affects others and others moods can affect ours? Did you know that all thoughts have a vibrational frequency and when you are on the same frequency as someone else you will tend to get along great.
Have you ever met someone who you just clicked with immediately?
It almost seemed like you had known this person for a while as they were just so easy to talk to. This is because both of your thoughts were on the same vibrational frequency. You just automatically get each other.
How your mood affects others and how their mood affects you really depends on your own inner thoughts
So when someone is in a bad mood and we are not. We can just sort of let them bounce off of us and our mood will not be affected. If we start letting what they are saying affect us, such as becoming irritated or if we disagree with them we will start to lower our own vibration.
We do not even have to say a word to them. If we identify with their feelings at all then we have let our own vibration lower and so their mood has affected us.
Want to know a way that you will never be affected by someone’s bad mood again?
I have had the chance to use this a lot and I will warn you that when I first got the hang of it, it was hard not to laugh at the person who was mad.
Let me explain. What you will be doing is observing the person, with no feelings involved. It is sort of like you are there, but you are also the audience just observing. So when someone is in a bad mood and just carrying on about all these things, it’s like watching a movie and it can be funny.
When you first try this I would recommend you don’t do it with someone like your boss. Practice on someone who will not be able to fire you! This is a great way to kinda shield yourself from negative emotions.
However, when you do this, their bad mood can not touch you as you are just observing and not letting any emotions come into play.
How about being affected by someone who is in a good mood.
When someone is in a good mood, their vibration is high. You can bring your own vibration up just by listening to them and feeling how happy they are and before you know it your vibration will start to match theirs.
So how your mood affects others depends on how well they can keep negative emotions out and let positive one in.
Now you know how to avoid becoming a victim of someone’s bad mood and how to jump on board with someone who is in a good mood.
However, you also know how your mood affects others, and the benefit here is you will be more aware of how you are feeling.
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