How To Find Yourself

By | April 3, 2016

8 Tips On How To Find Yourself , You Can Use Today


How to find yourselfAccept everything about yourself.

This means anything you don’t like about yourself from the color of your hair to your little toe. Just really be honest with yourself. We all have things about ourselves that we don’t like, but that is who we are.  You must accept yourself fully in order to love yourself fully

  Don’t try to be perfect in anything.

We are all human and we all make mistakes. Accept all your mistakes as just a part of who you are. Try to look at your mistakes as a learning tool. There is always something to be learned by it.

Don’t compare yourself to anyone else.

It does not matter what others do. When we start comparing ourselves to others we lose touch with who we really are. It does not matter what others are doing, if that is not what we want. Doing something to fit in or be liked can really hold us back.

Figure out what you truly believe

Don’t let anyone else beliefs persuade you. Decide for yourself. If you pay attention to your emotions, you will be able to feel if you are being true to yourself. If you always agree with someone to keep peace, then you are not being true to yourself. That does not mean you have to disagree. You could say nothing or say I understand your point of view.

Think of all the things you love to do

Once you get in touch with what you really love to do, then do it. This is a great way to find yourself . When we are doing what we love, we are having fun and just enjoying ourselves. There is no resistance of any kind. Everything is just flowing naturally.

Dream of what you want

Do you dream of the things you want? If not then now is a great time to start. Close your eyes and feel what it would be like if you could do or be anything you want. Let your imagination just go.

Are you stuck in your comfort zone?

Maybe you are stuck in your comfort zone and haven’t even thought about it. If we stay in our comfort zones then we never know what can be. If you are afraid of change , as a lot of people are, then do one small thing that makes you uncomfortable at a time. Gradually start doing more things as you feel how good it feels to come out of that comfort zone. As you do this you will start to see who you really are.

Close your eyes and listen

Listen to what is going on in your head. You maybe surprise at what you hear. Try to figure out why your mind is saying what you are hearing. When we become aware of our thoughts, we become more and more in touch with ourselves. We start to understand how to find ourselves. For more on this see creating a clutter free mind and how to stop the negative thoughts.  Both of these article will explain this in more detail.

So if you want to know how to find yourself,  you start accepting everything about yourself – the good and the bad. we open our eyes and mind to who we really are. We know mistakes are just a part of life and something we can learn from. We understand that others views and opinions are theirs and not necessarily ours, unless we want them to be. Coming out of our comfort zone will lead us closer to who we are. And learning to hear what is going on inside our head leads us to our true selves.

2 thoughts on “How To Find Yourself

  1. Lauren Kinghorn

    Powerful article. It feels like I need to take a day to focus on each of these 8 tips, 1 by 1. I can imagine by the end of these 8 days I would be feeling more empowered and sure of myself and the direction I’m going in. Should I try it out and let you know?

    1. Gloria

      Hi Lauren,

      Thanks for leaving a comment. I think if you focused on using one of these tips daily you would find yourself. I would love to hear how you make out.

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