When we talk about getting more out of life, it takes me back to my childhood. Remember all the things we wanted to do when we grew up? Remember day dreaming about how our life would be? What happened to those dreams? When did we stop doing this?
Those were things we wanted to do. I know it sounds strange but we really knew what we wanted without thinking about it. We just knew and we did not think about why it could not happen.
Somewhere we lost that. The freedom to just dream without thinking about how it could happen or how it was so far from where we were at.
Can you imagine if we still could dream like that? Well, maybe we can. Our minds are amazing and when we control our minds , we can accomplish great things. So now that we are adults, we can actually write down our dreams in detail and then break it down into steps of what we need to do to achieve our dreams.
Sort of like a map of where we are at to where we need to go to make our dreams a reality. Do you think if we did this , it would help us to start getting more out of life?
Lets say we want to purchase something and we need $1,000 for a down payment. If we write out a plan that helps us to start saving that money, for instance, you could ask yourself , how much do I spend on unnecessary things in a month.
Then really think about it and write down everything you can think of and decide what you are willing to give up. Now this will depend on how bad you want to save the $1,000 and how soon.
But when you come up with a plan and what you are making the plan for is something you really truly desire, then it becomes easy to do.
Getting more out of life all comes down to really knowing what you want, making a plan and sticking to the plan until you reach your goal. Of course when you do this your mind will be focused on getting what you want and what our main focus is on is what we create through the law of attraction.
You can do this with anything you desire. Just remember to break it down into steps and then just follow those steps, keeping your focus on your desire.
Lets say you want to lose weight. You would fist decide how much weight you want to lose. Next you would decide if you were going to eat less or not eat certain foods, such as junk food. Or however you decide you want to do it. Then you will write it all down.
So lets say you want to lose 30 lbs and your going to have less fat in your diet, no junk food and you will exercise with a video program three times a week. So you would write down that you will not purchase or eat any junk food. That you will only buy low fat food by checking labels when you grocery shop to make sure it is lower in fat. If you snack you will only eat low fat foods and so on until it is a complete map of losing that 30 pounds.
You would just list everything that you want to happen and you could even build in an incentive. Say if you normally spend ten dollars a week on junk food, you could take that ten dollars and put it away for a new outfit. You could even find the new outfit you want and print out pictures of it to look at often.
Once you have your plan written out and you really desire to lose weight, then following your plan will just happen as you will know that you can lose that 30 pounds.
you see, anytime we feel like we are not getting where we want to be or having what we want we will feel kinda stuck and we just have to recognize the areas we are feeling stuck in and decide what we truly want and devise a plan to make it happen.
So remember, we don’t need to feel stuck in our lives. We can control what happens if we choose to do so.
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